见家长 Meeting Parents

我从来没有拍拖，所以也就不曾有过所谓的‘见男朋友家长’。
我见过朋友们的家长。通常我跟好朋友们的家长都相处得还不错。
不过我跟好朋友们是相识了很多年的那种。

隔了很久，我已经很久没有‘见’新的‘家长’。

我接受你之前，我要求你见我的父母，尤其是我的父亲。
你很紧张。
你紧张到拒绝我，不过冷静了以后，你还是鼓起勇气见我的父亲。
亲爱的，谢谢你。
对我来说，我的恋情，以及我的婚姻，都必须拥有我父母的祝福。
谢谢你，让我的父亲接受了你。
谢谢你，让我可以在我父母面前自然地谈起你。
谢谢你。
因为你是第一次正式‘见女朋友家长’。

本来我很想见你的父母，然而你父母不曾提过想见我。
我渐渐地失望。所以我不再提了。
我以为，你并没有想要我见他们。
我以为，只有我一个人热情。

殊不知，你受伤了，因为我退缩了。
对不起，亲爱的。
现在的我愿意‘见家长’。
尽管我是那么地紧张害怕。不过只要你在我身边，我就有向前冲的勇气了。
只因为我爱着你。

I haven't been in a relationship before this, so I haven't met any boyfriend's parents.
I met my best friends' parents. Usually I have good time with my best friends' family.
But my best friends and I have been very good friends like, for decades.

It's been a long while since I met 'new' parents.

Before I accepted you, I requested you to meet my parents first, especially my father.
You were so nervous.
You were so nervous until you rejected me immediately, but after some time, you calmed down and decided to meet my father.
My dear, thank you very much.
To me, my relationship and my marriage must have my parents' blessings.
Thank you, for making my father to accept you.
Thank you, for making me talk about you in front of my parents.
Thank you.
Because you officially met girlfriend's parents for the first time.

At first I was very anticipated to meet your parents however your parents never mentioned about meeting me.
Slowly I got disappointed and I didn't dare to mention it again.
I thought that you never wanted me to meet them
I thought that only I was excited and passionate.

Without noticing, you were hurt by me, because I stepped back.
I'm sorry, Honey.
Now I'm ready to meet your parents.
Even though I'm so nervous, anxious and afraid.
But as long as you are by my side, I have the courage to go forward to doing it.
Just because that I'm loving you deeply, my love.